Does my cat understand when I cry?
Older Cats with Behavior Problems
As they age, cats often suffer a decline in functioning, including their cognitive functioning. It’s estimated that cognitive decline—referred to as feline cognitive dysfunction, or FCD—affects more than 55% of cats aged 11 to 15 years and more than 80% of cats aged 16 to 20 years. Memory, ability to learn, awareness, and sight and hearing perception can all deteriorate in cats affected with FCD. This deterioration can cause disturbances in sleeping patterns, disorientation or reduced activity. It can make cats forget previously learned habits they once knew well, such as the location of the litter box or their food bowls. It can increase their anxiety and tendency to react aggressively. It can also change their social relationships with you and with other pets in your home. Understanding the changes your cat is undergoing can help you compassionately and effectively deal with behavior problems that may arise in her senior years.
Some effects of aging aren’t related to cognitive dysfunction. Often these effects can contribute to behavior changes that only look like cognitive decline. Be sure to report all changes you see to your cat’s veterinarian. Don’t assume that your cat is “just getting old” and nothing can be done to help her. Many changes in behavior are signs of treatable medical disorders, and there are a variety of therapies that can comfort your cat and ease her symptoms, including any pain she might be experiencing.
Cognitive Dysfunction Checklist
The following behaviors may indicate cognitive dysfunction in your senior cat:
Learning and Memory
- Eliminates outside the litter box
- Eliminates in sleeping areas or by eating areas
- Sometimes seems unable to recognize familiar people and pets
Confusion and Spatial Disorientation
- Gets lost in familiar locations
- Stares or fixates on objects or simply stares into space
- Wanders about aimlessly
- Gets stuck and can’t navigate around or over obstacles
Relationships and Social Behavior
- Less interested in petting, interactions, greeting people or familiar pets, etc.
- Needs constant contact, becomes overdependent and clingy
- Explores less and responds less to things going on around her
- Grooms herself less
- Eats less
Anxiety and Increased Irritability
- Seems restless or agitated
- Vocalizes more and/or in a more urgent tone
- Behaves more irritably in general
Sleep-Wake Cycles and Reversed Day-Night Schedule
- Sleeps restlessly, wakes up during the night
- Sleeps more during the day
- Vocalizes more at night
Ruling Out Other Causes for Your Cat’s Behavior
If your cat shows any of the symptoms or changes listed above, your first step is to take her to the veterinarian to determine whether there is a specific medical cause for her behavior. Any medical or degenerative illness that causes pain, discomfort or decreased mobility—such as arthritis, dental disease, thyroid dysfunction, cancer, impaired sight or hearing, or urinary tract disease—can lead to increased sensitivity and irritability, increased anxiety about being touched or approached, increased aggression (because your cat may choose to threaten and bite rather than move away), decreased responsiveness to your voice, reduced ability to adapt to change, and reduced ability to get to usual elimination areas.
If medical problems are ruled out, and if primary behaviorproblems unrelated to aging are ruled out (for example, problems that started years before your cat began aging), your cat’s behavior may be attributed to the effects of aging on the brain.
Treating Cognitive Dysfunction
If cognitive dysfunction is the only logical explanation for changes in your cat’s behavior, the next step is to seek therapy. Treatment mainly consists of making helpful changes to your cat’s environment and keeping her daily schedule consistent. There are also some medicines that may help cats with FCD, such as selegiline hydrochloride. This drug is currently only licensed for use in dogs with cognitive dysfunction, but some behaviorists and veterinarians have reported improvement in cats as well. Your veterinarian may also consider an anti-anxiety medication.
Inappropriate elimination is a common symptom of FCD. In fact, it’s the most common reason that older cats are seen by behaviorists. Any number of medical problems can contribute to inappropriate elimination, including sensory decline, neuromuscular conditions that affect mobility, brain tumors, kidney dysfunction and endocrine system disorders. In short, any disorder that increases your cat’s frequency of elimination or decreases her bladder or bowel control can cause house soiling. Accordingly, the first step in treating inappropriate elimination in any cat, regardless of age, is to take her to her veterinarian for a thorough examination.
If your cat’s veterinarian rules out medical problems, the following suggestions may help:
- Increase the number of litter boxes available to your cat. Place at least one litter box on every floor of your house in case your cat is having trouble going up or down stairs.
- Place additional litter boxes where they’re easy to find and easy to get into. Cats experiencing FCD may forget the location of their litter box. Make sure you keep the existing boxes in their same places, but put new boxes in obvious areas so that your cat can always find an appropriate place to eliminate.
- Use litter boxes with low sides. Many older cats have trouble or experience pain when attempting to get in or out of a litter box with high sides.
Please see our article, Litter Box Problems, for additional suggestions and detailed information about resolving litter-box issues.
Confusion and Disorientation
Disorientation is often the first sign that pet parents recognize as cognitive decline in their older cats. It’s estimated that disorientation occurs in at least 40% of cats aged 17 years and older.
Disorientation may be reduced by increasing the predictability of your cat’s environment and schedule. Avoid changes to her food, food placement, litter and litter box placement. Try to keep her daily routine as consistent as possible. If she’s really distressed, it may be best to confine her to a relatively small space, such as one floor of your house or, in advanced cases, one room. Doing this will make it easy for her to find everything she needs.
Restlessness and Waking at Night
A cat’s sleep-wake cycle can be impaired by FCD. However, as with most symptoms of FCD, there are also many alternative reasons for increased nighttime activity. For instance, cats who sleep more during the day can become more restless and active at night. Sensory changes, such as eyesight or hearing loss, can affect your cat’s depth of sleep. An increased need to eliminate combined with a decreased ability to locate or access a litter box can prompt your cat to wake up and wander around. Ask your cat’s veterinarian to do a complete examination to identify medical problems that could cause restlessness, discomfort or an increased need to eliminate. At the same time, try to reestablish your cat’s normal sleeping and waking hours. It’s best to increase her activity level by engaging her in play during the day and in the evening so she’ll want to sleep at night.
Anxiety can also cause increased restlessness at night. A distinct feature of geriatric anxiety is that it can manifest as nighttime anxiety. It may be anxiety about being separated from family members (who are asleep) or worry about navigating the house in the dark. Your cat may keep you awake by calling, pacing in your room, purring by your head and by pawing at you for attention. FCD anxiety can improve with drug therapy. You can also consult a Certified Applied Animal Behaviorist (CAAB or ACAAB) and your veterinarian, or a veterinary behaviorist (Diplomate of the American College of Veterinary Behavior, Dip ACVB) to see if medication may be helpful. Please see our article, Finding Professional Behavior Help, to locate a professional behaviorist in your area.
Older cats may vocalize excessively for a number of reasons, including disorientation, loss of hearing and pain due to one or more medical conditions. (Please see our article, Meowing and Yowling, for more information about excessive vocalizing and how to resolve it.) As with other symptoms of FCD, your first step should be to take your cat to her veterinarian for a thorough examination to rule out or treat any medical problems.
FCD generally increases vocalizations related to anxiety, disorientation and separation distress. Anxious vocalizing is usually a plaintive meow. Your senior cat’s vocalizing can become a problem if she does it too often or at inappropriate times, like when you’re sleeping. Showing your own frustration or punishing your cat for vocalizing can increase her anxiety and aggravate the problem. It’s better to treat increased vocalization by increasing your cat’s activity during the day and gradually reestablishing her proper sleep-wake cycle.
Pheromone or drug therapy may help your cat feel less anxious. You can use feline pheromone sprays or diffusers in areas where your cat normally spends her time. Anti-anxiety medication can also help reduce vocalizations. You can also seek advice from a Certified Applied Animal Behaviorist (CAAB or ACAAB) and your veterinarian, or a veterinary behaviorist (Diplomate of the American College of Veterinary Behavior, Dip ACVB). Please see our article, Finding Professional Behavior Help, to locate a professional behaviorist in your area.
Do Cats Know When You Are Sad?
Cats use all of their senses to better understand and communicate with their favorite humans—including when we’re feeling blue.
By Janelle Leeson Reviewed by Amy Shojai, CABC Updated August 22, 2022
Reviewed by Amy Shojai, CABC
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- Do Cats Sense Sadness?
- How Cats Interpret Human Emotions
- How Human Emotions Affect a Cat
It’s not a cat’s fault that they get a (false) bad rap when it comes to socialization and bonding. Dogs, or man’s best friends, were domesticated as social friends long before cats. This means they have a head start on understanding us—including knowing when we’re feeling blue and how to cheer us up. Now that we’ve spent a few more years with our feline friends, do cats know when you’re sad?
Extra bonding time during the pandemic might have shaped your cat-human relationship more than you think, says Ragen McGowan, PhD, Animal Behavior Scientist at Purina. «Cats have grown more attached to their pet parents and may be able to better interpret their human’s sadness.»
Do Cats Sense Sadness?
Maybe. As much as we all wish we could talk to our cats, we can’t. So, we can’t say for sure what cats think or feel—but we do know they’re inquisitive creatures who use clues to adjust their behavior. The truth is, how cats interpret human emotions is a new and early field of research. Here are a few ways cats might tune into our emotional state:
Cats may use cues like our scent to identify us, McGowan says. But the verdict’s still out if we release scents that might signal sadness—or if cats can smell, recognize, and react to those scents.
Time for an ugly cry? McGowan has some (kinda) good news. «While cats have great visual recognition of other objects, research shows that cats have a difficult time recognizing human faces,» McGowan says. Go ahead, scrunch up your face and let it all out—your cat won’t tell because she’s not really sure what your face usually looks like.
However, there is a visual cue that cats readily respond to. And researchers think it plays a big role in human-cat communication. «Cats are sensitive to gaze—where our eyes are looking. And they use this to assess our mood or intentions,» McGowan says. Add in a slow blink and you mind find yourself having a full-blown conversation with your furry BFF.
Ever talk to your cat via pet cam or phone? Yeah, me too and it’s clear that cats react to their human’s voice. «Cats can distinguish human emotional state based on the tone of voice, or if the human is making «sad» or «happy» sounds,» McGowan says.
How Cats Interpret Human Emotions
I’d be lying if I said my cat hasn’t flat-out stared at me while I cried. What does it mean? «Your cat is most likely staring at you while crying because they’re trying to make sense of what they see and hear,» McGowan says. Your cat might not understand human crying, but she’ll gather as many clues as she can and use them to adjust her behavior.
Researchers know that reinforcement plays a big role in how your cat decides to react. So, if your go-to method of cheering up is swooning over your feline friend, she might associate your sad body language with getting attention.
Whether cats can understand that you are sad in the way we humans understand sadness, researchers just don’t know. Either way, there’s evidence that cats comfort humans when sad. «When pet parents are depressed, cats rub against them more often. It’s likely your cat is responding to your emotional state by trying to comfort you or draw your attention,» McGowan says.
How Human Emotions Affect a Cat
Cats have a big impact on how we feel. Just by petting a floof, «happy chemicals» release in our brains. But how does our mood affect them? «Research has found that owners and their cats mirror each other’s well-being and behavior,» McGowan says. «Similarly, a Purina survey found that 71 percent of surveyed cat owners agree that they feel their cat is stressed when they are stressed.»
So, McGowan says, it’s equally important for us as it is for our cats that we nourish our mental wellness. If you’re feeling blue, first, pet your cat. If you notice anxious tendencies in your cat brought on by your mood, McGowan suggests enriching her environment and asking your vet if a calming supplement is right for her.